14 fun activities to do on Feb 14!

This coming February 14 what are you planning to do alone or with someone? If you haven’t found out, here are some ideas you can start with or include in your plan.

1. Watch a movie in the cinema

Classic date night in the cinema for me never gets old. You spend time focusing on the same thing is intimate and builds connection. Make sure that whoever you are with agrees with the movie you will watch.

2. Dine in a restaurant

Another classic one. Try out a tasting menu. Or a fancy steak house. But again checkout your companion cos you don’t wanna bring your vegan or vegetarian data in an all-you-can-eat Samgyupsal restaurant.

3. Attend a concert

Do you have a band or orchestra you enjoy listening to? Then you might find where they are performing in two weeks and reserve your tickets. Be together until midnight with the type of music you both enjoy.

4. Walk around the park

A date does not necessarily about spending too much. Knowing the person you wanna take on this kind of activity is vital. You can spend your time roaming around checking out stuff in the park making sure you do not complain having painful legs at the end of the day.

5. Street food crawling

I love street food and if you take me to one I will consider that a sweet gesture on a date. It is cheap but I love these food. However, if your date is not a fan of this kind of food then consider other activities on this list.

6. Shopping

Nothing is wrong in retail therapy as long as it is still within your ‘wants’ budget. Window shopping may be therapeutic to others and may also be the root cause of your stress so communicate your intention when doing this kind of activity alone or with someone.

7. Play arcade games

Video games, basketball, or car racing. Name it and most big arcades have it. An hour won’t be enough and therefore you have more time to spend with that person enjoying different games and getting a price if you are lucky enough to hit a jackpot to get that big teddy!

8. See a theater play

It may be boring or worth each other’s time. The key is to ask your date to honestly tell you if he/she want to see a play cos you will need time before that play to book your tickets and you don’t wanna bore your date after that day of the play.

9. Cook food and do a picnic

Cooking our meals is cheap but can give someone the impression of you making an effort to cook especially if you cooked that person’s favorite food because you gave attention to what they say or do. Checkout the picnic area and bring food that is appropriate in the place.

10. Trekking

This one is kinda intense if you consider like trekking the highest mountains! LOL. But why not if both of you agreed go for it and then you can spend the night camping there if the place allows. Plan to bring the needed stuff before doing this one.

11. Do bar hopping

But, do not get too drunk especially if it is your first date. It may be a turn off to your date. Bar hopping gives the both of you varieties of bar ambiance. Sometimes some bars may have fun games or a live band and lucky you if you get to those bars!

12. Camping

Whether at the foot of the mountain, by the beach or lake, camping is something that will allow you to know your person better. This is spending the night with the resources available and enjoying the company you have while dealing on whatever challenge that may arise in the camp.

13. Try out all the rides in an amusement park

Age is just a number. Unleash your inner child by spending the day in an amusement park and trying out all the available rides. Your date may be scared of the rollercoaster but may want to try it with you and that gives you an idea of the trust that person has in you.

14. Spend the day in a museum

I like going to historical museum but my friend easily gets bored in there so talk to your date if they want to go there if they said yes you may need to reserve your tickets. This can create conversations that may arise while looking around the things that interest you both.

The key in all the above-mentioned activities would be to communicate the plans you have. Surprises are fun if you know very well who you gonna surprise. But, knowing that both of you enjoy the activities you are planning will result to a more successful Valentine’s date!

14 flowers to give this Valentine’s (and their scientific names to impress your date)

Valentine’s day is in two weeks time! Have you thought of any flowers to give your special someone? Here are some of the flowers you can give them and their scientific names:

1. Rose (Rosa sp.)

2. Tulip (Tulipa sp.)

3. Dahlia (Dahlia pinnata)

4. Orchid (Order Orchidaceae)

5. Sunflower (Helianthus annuus)

6. Lily Stargazer (Lilium sp.)

7. Daffodil (Narcissus pseudonarcissus)

8. Carnation (Dianthus caryophyllus)

9. Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia)

10. Gumamela (Hibiscus rosa-sinensis)

11. Daisy (Bellis perennis)

12. Iris (Iris sp.)

13. Petunia (Petunia x hybrida)

14. Geranium (Pelargonium sp.)

You can also mix and match these flowers or get a mixture of this into a bouquet. Or, if you are on a budget, try out paper flowers with a personalized note in there. Surely, someone special in your hear will appreciate the flower you gave them as long as you make them feel loved.

14 Places to Take Your Date this Valentine’s Day

Love season is just sitting around the corner. Have you ever thought where to bring your date, bf, gf, mom, dad, sibling or yourself (cos *insert Miley Cyrus’ Flowers* I can date myself)? Here are some places where you can bring that special someone:

1. Park

2. Beach

3. Mountain

4. Cinema

5. Restaurant

6. Cave

7. Amusement Park

8. February Fair

9. Concert

10. Light Show

11. Zoo

12. Arcade

13. Botanical Garden

14. Lake

Or, if you are both home buddies, you can set your date night at home with home-made food watching TV or playing video games!

To the person you are becoming…

Be patient.

Every year some of us make a list of New Year’s Resolutions.

Things we wanna change ourselves for the better.

You may or may not achieve those things this year.

Or maybe not even next year on your 2025 New Year’s Resolutions.

But, as long as you are making an effort towards that goal, it will happen.

You will become the person you could not stop imagining.

Consistency, commitment, and discipline.

Easy to know these words but harder to apply in real life.

We often developed these things we wanted to change in ourselves.

And, not overnight you will become a different person.

It will take time.

And knowing that you are doing it for your good, you will be good.

Be patient.

There will be times you will have to restart again.

Or unmotivated days when you could not find reasons behind your efforts.

Thinking that I was ok before so why do these changes?

Remember why you even started.

It’s not gonna be easy.

But, it will be worth it.

Be patient to the person you are becoming.

Especially, if you haven’t been that person before.

How to make artichoke spinach dip?

What do you need?

1 can (14 oz) artichoke hearts, drained (you can also chop based on your desired size)

1/2 cup frozen spinach or sautéed in olive oil and drained fresh spinach

1/2 cup greek plain yogurt or sour cream

1/2 cup garlic or plain mayonnaise

8 ounces of cream cheese in room temperature

1/2 tbsp minced fresh garlic

1 cup grated parmesan cheese

1/2 tsp pepper

1/4 cup powdered or grated parmesan for toppings (optional)

Procedure:

1. Preheat oven to 350 deg F.

2. You can mix everything all together in one go but I prefer mixing everything except the artichoke and spinach and mix them after. This allowed me to easily distribute the flavor evenly.

3. You can grease your baking dish before putting the mixture but I did not and it still worked.

4. Put the remaining powdered or grated cheese all over the top.

5. Bake for about 23 minutes in the preheated oven.

6. Serve with carrots, celery, crackers or bread.

Top 7 rice producing provinces and regions in the Philippines (2022)

I am a rice eater and we all know that the price of it has increased. But, do we know the top 5 provinces that produce rice? Below are the top 5 provinces and regions that produce rice in the Philippines.

Top 5 provinces:

1. Nueva Ecija

2. Isabela

3. Pangasinan

4. Cagayan

5. Iloilo

6. Camarines Sur

7. Maguindanao

Top 5 regions:

  1. REGION III (CENTRAL LUZON)
  2. REGION II (CAGAYAN VALLEY)
  3. REGION VI (WESTERN VISAYAS)
  4. REGION I (ILOCOS REGION)
  5. REGION V (BICOL REGION)
  6. REGION XII (SOCCSKSARGEN)
  7. REGION IVB (MIMAROPA)

Source: https://openstat.psa.gov.ph/PXWeb/pxweb/en/DB/DB__2E__CS/0012E4EVCP0.px/?rxid=bdf9d8da-96f1-4100-ae09-18cb3eaeb313

5 destinations for first time solo travelers in the Philippines

Sometimes we want to travel but no one available to accompany us so why not travel alone? But, it is not easy to travel alone because aside from the cost and planning alone, we have to be extra careful when you are new to a place. Below are 5 places in the Philippines that you can go for your first solo backpacking:

1. Boracay, Aklan, Coron Palawan or any famous tourist destinations

I haven’t been here but famous tourists destinations would have lots of people from different parts of the world and will feel safe since you are not literally alone roaming around.

2. Gigantes Island, Carles, Iloilo

Spots to visit: Tanke Saltwater Lagoon, Cabugao Gamay

Food to try: P1 per piece fresh scallops, fresh crabs

3. Sagada, Mountain Province

Spots to visit: Spelunking Cave, Sea of Clouds

Food to try: Pinikpikan, Lemon Pie, Pastries, Wine

4. Guinobatan, Albay, Bicol

Spots to visit: Cagsawa Ruins, Sumlang Lake

Food to try: Sili ice cream, Pinangat

5. Sipalay, Negros Occidental

Spots to visit: Sugar Beach, Islets

Food to try: Oysters and fresh seafood

Take this with caution. We still have to take extra care. Try to go to places with many people. Do not give in to the pressure of ambulant vendors or people selling services. I am confident to say that traveling anywhere in the world is safe for solo travelers but we have to prepare, plan well and be aware of their cultures and respect that.

I am ugly: accepting that I was not born to conform to the beauty standard

I grew up thinking I was not beautiful. Error 404: no confidence found. Until I found acceptance and love within myself through the people I met and experiences I had.

What is beauty standard? For me, it is the physical appearance perceived by the general public in the community as beautiful. In the Philippines, I grew up thinking that you have to have the following main traits to be considered as a ‘beautiful’ woman (very Western look):

  • Slim or small nose with high bridge
  • White Skin
  • Straight teeth
  • Slim body
  • Light brown eyes or other color than dark brown/black
  • Straight hair
  • Even skin-tone from head to toe

Guess what? I have straight hair. That’s it! LOL!

Slim and tall nose and white skin are the main traits that make you look beautiful. And I have a fat with non-existent bridge nose, dark skin tone, crooked teeth, black eyes and uneven skin tone. There was also a time in my life that I got fat and was borderline obese. And, that swallowed my confidence at presenting myself to people.

There was even a TV show back then called “Bakekang” that depicted these traits as ugly and unattractive. I hated that show because it made me anxious that my classmates or other random people would tease me as that Bakekang girl. And, not long enough, voila! My fear came in the form of a kid that lived in the alleyway where I had to walked by everyday going to school. And that was the time I lost the last ounce of confidence.

When I started working, I used my extra savings to conform to the beauty standard: I used whitening products and it lightened my skin! I had braces and I got straightened teeth! I exercised and lost 20lbs! I even thought of saving money to get a rhinoplasty but this never happened. But, the other successful stuff made me gain confidence! Although the white skin didn’t last because I love my job as an agronomist and we had to do field works making my skin dark every summer season.

I did those things mainly for me to gain back my confidence and I believe there is nothing wrong on wanting to improve the traits that you think bad especially when you are doing it for yourself and not to please other people.

During that transition from my past “ugly” self to the new “beautiful” self, I advanced my education, found true friends with variety of personality, got to travel to different places, met a lot of people from different parts of the world, and had my share of good and the bad in life, and that’s how I slowly changed my perspective about my physical appearance. I came to the realization that I was born to be different and not conform to the standard that the society has set.

I still have my big fat nose and dark skin and I am also gaining weight lately because I am stressed. LOL. But, those didn’t lessen my love for my physical appearance because my appearance have never defined my core values. My will never depend on what others think about my appearance. My worth is based on how I define it which are based on how I feel within myself and how I made other people’s well-being better by doing my best work.

It is fine to do all those physical changes that you perceive will help you but make sure you are not stepping on other people’s feet. To feel beautiful is part of self-care that you should not deprive yourself with.

It’s clichĂ© to say that do not settle for less than what you deserve but it is not that easy. When your brain is wired of thinking that you are ugly or too bad for something it is easy to give in to things with low standards. But, I hope you weigh the pros and cons and learn from it. And one day, I hope you wake up thinking that you deserve just the best things in the world not because you impressed or pleased other people but because you are you.

Your favorite ‘nuts’ and their scientific names

Are you someone who are nuts about nuts? Here are some ‘nuts’ that we know and their scientific names. Although some of them are botanically speaking not nuts they may be legumes or drupes.

1. Peanut – Arachis hypogaea

2. Cashew – Anacardium occidentale

3. Almond – Prunus dulcis

4. Walnut – Juglans sp.

5. Chestnut – Castanea sp.

6. Pistachio – Pistacia vera

7. Pecan – Carya illinoinensis

8. Hazel nut – Corylus avellana

Philippine vegetables (and their scientific names)

The supermarket is full of vegetable of all kinds. However, there are a lot of vegetables I like that I do not see often in the market. These vegetables have distinct flavor that you may either get from your backyard for free or at your neighbors for free as well but make sure to ask for their permission. I list these veggies below.

Here are the Filipino name – English name – Scientific name of these vegetables:

1. Dahon ng ampalaya – Ampalaya leaves – Momordica charantia

2. Bunga ng malunggay – Malunggay fruit – Moringa oleifera

3. Bulaklak ng katuray – Katuray/vegetable hummingbird flowers – Sesbania grandiflora

4. Dahon ng sampalok – Young tamarind leaves – Tamarindus indica

5. Bulaklak ng kalabasa – Squash flowers – Cucurbita maxima

6. Alugbati – Malabar/Ceylon spinach – Basella alba

7. Kulitis – Edible amaranthus – Amaranthus viridis

8. Labong/ubod ng nyog – Coconut shoots – Cocos nucifera

9. Dahon ng kamoteng kahoy – Young cassava leaves – Manihot esculenta

10. Pako – Fiddlehead fern – Diplazium esculentum

11. Saluyot – Nalita jute – Corchorus olitorius

12. Himbabao – Birch flower – Broussonetia luzonica

13. Labong – Bamboo shoots – Bambusa vulgaris

14. Dahon ng camote – Sweet potato tops – Ipomoea batatas